Think you fooled everyone around you? Not. Your antics are only quite believable to some people who doesn't know you personally. Quite disappointing no one ever thought of challenging your credibility.
What prompted you to do this?
What's the motivation behind it?
Who are you?
Who are they?
Why are they ALL against you now?
Why didn't you tell her to confront him?
Let me tell you a story:
There's this girl who's sooooo in love with this boy. Let's call them Patz and Madz. Madz broke up with Patz after quite some time because of the atrocity of her behavior and her unwillingness to change or improve it. Sino ba naman may gusto na pangit ugali ng girlfriend mo, hindi ba?
Of course, Patz could not accept it. She's willing to do almost any deed just to have Madz back. To catch Madz's attention, she created an FB account named "Iwantu Back B" (http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001691518454), who has 10 friends, all dummies except for Cedric Wascat. It didn't work. So to make Madz jealous, she created an account that would pose as her boyfriend and named it Stephen Drew Garcia (account no longer exist after serving it's purpose and failed). To prove that Drew really exist, she created an additional dummy named Nicki Jamin (http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001881911017&etrk=ffa), who now has only 30 friends (consists of Simply Hospital players who you'll find on the SH Add Me Up Wall, few friends from highschool & a few dummies of her own), and added Drew to her friends' accounts na alam niya ang mga password. Still, it didn't work. 'Til Patz found out that Madz have already moved on at may iba ng girlfriend. That's when she started to plot against them.
Perfect. Madz didn't know that time that Drew was just an imaginary person. Thought that Patz had already moved on. Thought that pwede naman na pagsamahin ang past and future sa iisang group dahil parehas naman na sila masaya sa mga buhay-buhay nila. Hoax.
Patz found an accomplice, planted a seed of doubt on Madz's partner and destroyed them. Then Patz told Madz that Drew's been using her account and that maybe Drew said something to Madz's partner that may have triggered the breakup. Even asking if he's ok, blah blah-- In short, Patz put the blame on Drew and siya ngayon ang nagcocomfort kay Madz, wow!
You edited some of your posts 'coz they didn't know you're his ex-girlfriend. You left that part out of the convo, right?! Kasi magiging clear sa kanila kung ano talaga yung motive mo. I bet wala ni isa sa kanila ang friends mo sa MySpace.
Kasinungalingan na you're a lezbo? Hmm...
- padme_armidala (10:07:27 PM): ME LESBIAN
- padme_armidala (10:08:10 PM): SO DAHIL DUN KAYA AYAW K NYA P-ADD SAKIN?
- padme_armidala (10:08:20 PM): SA KASINUNGALINGAN N UN
- padme_armidala (10:08:59 PM): SO YOU KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT ME?
- padme_armidala (10:09:10 PM): NOT THE LESBY THING HA
- padme_armidala (10:09:17 PM): HAHAHA COZ IM NOT LIKE THAT
- padme_armidala (10:09:26 PM): WHAT DID MADZ TOLD YOU ABOUT ME?
- padme_armidala (10:09:32 PM): JUST THAT? SUS
- padme_armidala (10:09:37 PM): PAILALIM TUMIRA MAP
- padme_armidala (10:09:41 PM): AMP*
You tried to destroy them too by making stories na pwede ikagalit nila sa isa't isa. It didn't work. Your reputation was already tarnished long before. So you left the group & try destroying them by telling other people fabricated stories. Another wow!
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Your mistake? You confided what you did to your 'best friend', who squealed everything to us.
Your motive? Doesn't take a genius to figure this one out.*What prompted you to do this?
*What's the motivation behind it?
Simple lang, love, bitterness and revenge...
- padme_armidala (10:00:42 PM): AHAHAHA IKAW ANG INIWAN MAS MASAKIT UN
- padme_armidala (10:00:47 PM): IKAW UNG NI-REJECT
- padme_armidala (10:00:59 PM): HAY NAKU..
- padme_armidala (10:01:11 PM): PERO GANYAN ANG NAFEFEEL MO
- padme_armidala (10:22:16 PM): pero nasaktan ka?
- padme_armidala (11:01:08 PM): kasi na-hurt ka?
- padme_armidala (11:01:09 PM): aminin mo
At hindi din ba kahina-hinala na a few days after ng big fight/confrontation nyo nung last week ng November, gumawa ka pa ng dummy account named Janet Jiao (http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001889080189), who now has only 46 friends (consists of Simply Hospital players who you'll find on the SH Add Me Up Wall, a friend from highschool & her dummies) and befriend him on Facebook to spy on him? You knew exactly who to add and spy to, yet you pretended like you don't know him or his name?
There you are, trying to catch his attention:
- padme_armidala (9:35:19 PM): HONGA ANO UNG ALAM MONG REAL ACCT NI MADRIGAL
- padme_armidala (9:35:21 PM): LOLZ
- padme_armidala (9:35:25 PM): AHAHAHA
- padme_armidala (9:35:27 PM): =))
- padme_armidala (9:40:36 PM): e2 b ung cnsbi mong rockwell ?
- padme_armidala (9:40:37 PM):http://www.facebook.com/************
- padme_armidala (9:41:33 PM): hindi visible sakin ang wall nya eh haha..
*Who are you?
After mapagtagpi-tagpi namin lahat ng mga kwento mo sa'min about sa buhay mo, narealize lang namin na hindi ka nga namin kilala talaga. Lahat ng kwento mo about sa buhay mo is pinagtagpi-tagping kwento ng mga buhay ng mga taong nasa paligid mo.
- juane_madrey1217 (10:33:07 PM): may namatay ba kayong kamag-anak?
-Wait, don't tell me nagpanggap kang kamag-anak mo ang ex mo? Wala kang pinsan na kaguild, kasama sa tropa mo or even sa loob ng subdivision na tinitirhan mo (well, no one has seen kahit sino sa'min yung kinikwento mong kamag-anak mong taga-phase 1B & taga Sta. Fe)! Pati iyon imbento lang ng imagination mo.
*Who are they?
*Why are they ALL against you now?
Sila lang naman yung mga taong halos araw-araw mo nakakasama sa buhay mo, mga taong nagcare sa'yo at tumanggap ng buo kahit sablay ang ugali mo. Is it still surprising kung lahat sila tumalikod sa'yo? Tinawag mo pa silang mga "nakikialam at sumbongera". Obviously, nasa iyo na yung mali. And now, they're fed up.
Bakit mo tinanggal mo yung option para sa kanila na makapagcomment sa wall mo kung wala kang itinatago? Bakit mo rin hinide ang wall mo sa iba sa'min? In some case, binura mo pa sa friends list mo? Kung sa tingin mo ikaw ang nasa tamang lugar at brinainwash lang ang mga kaibigan mo, bakit hindi ka humarap sa kanila at kausapin sila at sabihin kung ano ang totoong nangyari? Wala ka naman dapat ikatakot kung alam mong totoo mga pinagsasabi mo hindi ba? May mga sarili naman din silang pag-iisip para timbangin kung ano ang tama at kung ano ang mali. At kung nasa tama ka, madali lang para sa iyo ang iprove iyon.
Tapos magpopost ka kunyari ng ganito para makita ng mga taong pinagsabihan mo ng sinasabi mong 'totoo'?
*Why didn't you tell her to confront him?
And if she confronts him, it would have ruined your plan. Your only chance to get back with him. So you insisted not to. Eh kaso, wala ka na rin naman na babalikan either way eh.
- padme_armidala (10:01:37 PM): PERO WAG KA MAGBABANGGIT OR MAGBIBIGAY NG HINT NA ALAM MO NA
- padme_armidala (10:01:42 PM): PLEASE LANG ELLA..
- padme_armidala (10:01:59 PM): AND DONT EVEN TRY TO CONFRONT HER
- padme_armidala (10:02:25 PM): BASTA PROMISE WAG KA MAGBIBIGAY NG HINT OR TATANONG SA KNYA
- padme_armidala (10:02:28 PM): NA MAY ALAM KA
- padme_armidala (10:25:08 PM): ella ginawa ko un kasi naawa ako sayo so please sana ikaw dn maawa ka sakin hahaha
- padme_armidala (11:12:09 PM): ella babe wala lalaabas ha or even hint
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Medyo gets pa kita kung bakit mo ginawa iyan eh. Mahal na mahal mo, but you couldn't accept the fact na inayawan ka na, iniwan at pinagpalit sa iba. That's when you turned bitter and then your relationship was poisoned. You can't handle breakups and rejection. But what was worse than losing him was the horrible realization that a big part of you went with him. He took something away from you that you will never get back. And because of that, you were not able to forget him that easy.
I wish that somehow, you had been aware of the consequences of your actions before you let your hormones take over. It's because if you're too immature to deal with those explosive drives, it tends to dominate your life and unpleasant memories tends to damage your character. It's part of a relationship, yes, but not synonymous to the relationship itself. Just because you two are engaged on that, doesn't mean na yun na yung pangrepair nyo ng problems nyo. Hiwalay iyon. Momentary pleasure was there, but to tell you honestly, a lot of people notice that your relationship was a miserable one. I suggest you start to search for a logical explanation or a reason for what happened. Don't blame others for causing you that grief. Acceptance is the first key. It will bring you an inner peace and tranquility instead of anger and resentment.
Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
Next time na magmahal ka, learn how to treat them right. Hindi yung ganito:
Ginamit mo pa account ni Grace para i-like ang post mo.
About the issue with your friends, i don't get why you have to create such lies. Ano iyon, to gain respect and attention?
Marami ka ng nasira. And kung masaya ka sa mga nangyari at sa mga ginawa mo, well then GOOD FOR YOU. Masama ang masyadong masaya. Sa ginagawa mo, sarili mo lang ang lalo mong sinisira. Next time you do something, make sure kaya mong panindigan. I hope you can say those things straight to my face one day. And if ever that time comes, who knows baka mapaniwala mo pa ako.
Now, I'll ask you one thing: WAS IT ALL WORTH IT?
My advice pa rin: find the meaning of ACCEPTANCE, learn it and apply it to your daily life. One day, you'll realize how much you've lost. Well, I guess that would be too late.
Do not dwell on the past. Pinapahirapan mo lang sarili mo. I hope you could find peace and comfort sa mga bago mong kaibigan.
But for now,
...Let go...Move on...
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